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Monday, February 06, 2012
 

TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP

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No matter your score, your marriage can be improved so that you experience more joy than grief.  People who believe that nothing can be done to improve a bad marriage are incorrect.  Many throw up their hands at the possibility of saving their once-happy marriage. Though it may be difficult, it is absolutely possible, to transform a poor marriage into a great one!

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TAKE THE MARRIAGE SATISFACTION QUIZ

 

Record your feelings about your marriage by rating each "I Am" statement below from 1-10, with 10 being very pleased and 0 being not at all pleased.

 

 

·   Pleased with the amount we talk to each other

·   Happy with the friends we share in common ­­

·   Satisfied with our sex life ­­­­

·   Satisfied with the amount of time each of us spend at work/home  ­

·   In agreement with the way we spend money ­­­

·   Pleased with the kind of parent he/she is ­­­­­­­­

·   Of the opinion that we are on the same team ­­­

·   Pleased with our leisure time together ­­­­

·   In agreement with values, attitudes, religious beliefs

·   Pleased with the way my spouse relates to his/her family ­­

·   Satisfied with the way my spouse relates to my family ­­­­

·   Pleased with my spouses habits, mannerisms, overall appearance ­­­

 

 

Total Your Score  _______

 

 

Adapted from Marital Myths Revisited:  A Fresh Look at Two Dozen Mistaken Beliefs About Marriage,

by Dr. Arnold A. Lazarus.
 

 

YOUR SCORE...

  • 84+ You have a VERY GOOD marriage
  • 72-83 You have SATISFACTORY feelings and interactions 
  • 61-71 You need to make some BASIC CHANGES
  • -60 You are experiencing a POOR level of satisfaction
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